A romantic road trip through Big Sur

Then, it's straight onto 17 Mile Drive, a scenic road through Pebble Beach and Pacific Grove. There are loads of gorgeous trees along this drive, including the 5,300-acre Del Monte Forest Cypress trees.

If you're in the mood for some fine dining, you're in luck, becuase Big Sur is kinda famous for that too. Casanova Restaurant is a romantic eatery that used to be a charming private home, and Vincent Van Gogh once visited! A popular dish to get here is the spinach gnocchi.

Then, visit Mission San Carlos Borromeo de Carmelo in Carmel Valley. This is a beautiful, old Spanish mission on a hillside just a half mile from the sea, founded in 1770. Today visitors can explore the church, pore over the five on-site museums, and spend time in the peaceful courtyard.

Then pull over at Point Lobos State Reserve. This is believed to be the "crown jewel" of California's state parks. There's a vast coastal area that you can hike or drive along, and even a whaling museum.

After that, head down to Point Sur State Historic Park. There's a three-hour guided tour of the park, which is great for families. They explain the history of the park and the lighthouse, and you get to actually go into the lighthouse. Afterwards, there's a trip to a museum and a small gift shop. The tour is $12 for adults, $5 for children. Bring warm clothes, because it can get windy. TIP: Call well ahead of your visit to arrange a tour.

When you're ready to call it a night, check into the Big Sur River Inn, an historic lodge located right along Highway 1, and only a few miles from Pfeiffer Beach. The buildings were constructed in the 1930s and the whole place still retains a laid-back, old California feel. There's also an on-site restaurant and general store. When you stay here, plan to spend some time sitting on one of the chairs in the river, with a refreshing cocktail in hand.

If you're in the mood for some decadent cliffside dining, head to Nepenthe Restaurant, request a terrace seat and order the Ambrosia Burger, with a slice of chocolate cake for dessert.

If all this Big Sur adventuring has made you feel spiritual, then head to Esalen Hot Springs and Esalen Institute, where you can soak in an ocean-facing hot spring, get a massage, or simply meditate and contemplate the meaning of just about everything.

Next, you'll come to Limekiln State Park, a coastal state park featuring several lime kilns that were used in the late 19th century. It's also home to a beach and a stunning redwood forest, but the big showpiece is Limekiln Falls, a 100-foot cascading waterfall.

Since Big Sur is a mecca for spiritual adventurers, there's no shortage of religious and metaphysical places to visit, such as the Hermitage in Big Sur. This Camaldolese Benedictine monastery is one of the world's most drop-dead gorgeous monasteries. It's won worldwide renown for its panoramic ocean vistas, and its fruitcakes!

For more rustic camping, there's the Ponderosa Campground, which is run by the United States Forest Service in the Los Padres National Forest. One of the campground features is the Nacimiento River that runs through the backcountry camp, and it's just 13 miles off the Pacific Coast Highway.

Drive a bit to Ragged Point, where you can spend the night at the Ragged Point Inn & Restaurant. It's an amazing inn with incredible views of the coast and mountains.